“I’ll Call You Back”… What To Actually Do?
While getting a girl’s number is a huge deal on it’s own, it won’t do you much good if you don’t know what to do with it. This means that making that first phone call, while stressful, is incredibly important – and there are a million ways for you to screw it up and ruin any future chances of contact with this girl. However, with a little bit of preparation, you can rest assured that this won’t happen to you, and that your first contact will be fun and (almost) stress-free!
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When to Call
The first thing most guys worry about after gaining a girl’s number is how many days they should let pass before calling her. The truth is, while there are thousands of theories on this, it really comes down to how you and the girl were getting along, and what kind of signals she was sending out to you. So, follow this: if the girl was playing hard to get, you’re much better off waiting a few days to call her, so you won’t come off as needy. But, if she was friendly and open, go ahead and give her a call sometime the next day – aim for a time in the evening or late afternoon, as calling too early can make you seem desperate, and calling too late will just creep her out.
The most important thing to do when calling a girl is to always, always, ALWAYS think about what you’re going to say beyond “hello” before dialing the number. Let’s face it – there’s nothing worse than having your mind go completely blank the moment the call is answered. So, if necessary, write down some notes and talking points before calling – not only will it give you piece of mind during the call, but you’ll come off smooth and collected to the girl. Just remember not to write an entire speech, as this would come off awkwardly and make your call incredibly unsuccessful.
Be Funny but to the Point
Working humor into your first phone call with a girl can always be a huge bonus, but it comes with a warning – never focus on being funny and nothing more. The main focus of this phone call is to set up a date, not to practice your stand up. So, a joke here or there is fine, but don’t forget about the end goal.
Phone calls definitely serve a purpose, but you must remember that they come with a few limitations too. Because you can’t see reactions and body language, things have the possibility to be interpreted more freely, which can be a bad thing at times.
Remember to keep your phone call light and short, and arrange and date as soon as possible.
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