She has heard she is pretty from men who wanted a shortcut. The compliment is cheap because it is common.

Later, when there is a we, looks talk can be hot. First, compliment the book, the timing, the joke, the way she handled the waiter. You are seeing a person.

Notice what she chose, not only what she was born with.

1. Ban body comments on approach

Especially from strangers.

2. Use specific non-look praise

Effort, humor, taste.

3. If you slip, don’t double down

Move to a real topic.

4. When you do compliment looks, be particular and rare

“That color on you” not a paragraph on her figure.

5. Watch if she tenses

Then stop.

Mistakes that quietly stop you attracting women

  • Backhanded looks comments.
  • Comparing her to a celebrity.
  • Only ever complimenting appearance even later.

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FAQ: compliments too soon attraction

Don’t women like being called beautiful?

Often from someone they already like. From a stranger it can feel like a hunt.

What about ‘you have kind eyes’?

Still looks. Fine-ish later, not as an opener.

Photos on apps?

You can say you like her style in a picture. Still don’t be a creep about the body.