You can be funny and still be a vending machine of jokes. She doesn’t have to want the vending machine. She might just enjoy the show.

Aim for 50/50 airtime. Ask her to tell the story. Be interested when you are not speaking. That’s how entertainment becomes chemistry.

If she never has to try, she may never feel the pull.

1. After a bit, ask a question

Hand her the mic.

2. Practice not filling

Count to three.

3. Let a story of hers be the best story of the night

Generosity is attractive.

4. Drop the tight five

Have one story, not a set list.

5. Be okay if the date is only pretty good

Not every night needs a standing ovation.

Mistakes that quietly stop you attracting women

  • Friends as an audience while she watches.
  • Forcing bits when she’s tired.
  • Getting hurt if she isn’t a great audience.

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FAQ: stop being the entertainer dating

But humor is my strength.

Keep it. Add listening. Strength plus listening is lethal in a good way.

What if she expects to be entertained?

Then you may be on a stage date. Decide if you like that role.

Quiet dates?

Can be the most intimate. Don’t panic-entertain.